10 years as Mr. & Mrs. Charles Davis Corley.
3,650 days of choosing to stay.
Not the sappy, romantic anniversary post opening you’d expect? Listen, there is no greater evidence of fierce love than choosing to stay day after day after day. My husband can get under my skin faster than anyone on the planet. He knows how to press my buttons & he does. He is the most insensitive man I’ve ever known in my life. There are days that he makes me want to rip my eyeballs out of my head. Other days I consider jerking his toenails off one by one. That’s truth. He would say the same thing about me, but probably worse. I don’t always want to love him, but I choose to love him. Over & over & over & over. And I choose to stay. Thankfully, he does the same.
Ten years ago, we vowed to stay together. We made the decision to choose one another every day for the rest of our lives. I did not promise to be nice all the time. I did not promise to cook gourmet meals (or cook at all). I did not promise to clean house (ever). I did not promise to like the way he does things (anything). He didn’t promise to bring me flowers (ever). He didn’t promise to rub my feet (or my back). He didn’t promise to enjoy listening to me ramble on about everything (and nothing). Unfortunately, he didn’t promise to do anything at all in a timely manner. He simply promised to stick around. So did I. We promised to be in this together. No matter how much we might want out. Absolutely I’ve wanted out. Most definitely he’s wanted out. But we stay. ‘Cause we promised. And ’cause God is faithful. And HE promised.
Isaiah 14:24 “The LORD of hosts has sworn saying, ‘Surely, just as I have intended so it has happened, & just as I have planned so it will stand'”.
And it has. And it does. It remains standing.
Today I promise once again. To stay. Always. Only because I want to be here every day for the rest of your life to drive you completely out of your mind. You’re well on your way, Baby. Well on your way.
I love you, Chuck Corley.
Won’t you stay? Just a little bit longer?